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Help Wanted....

Description:

Our client, an experienced, swinging, athletic, endowed and well educated SBM is looking for someone to fill his NYC Mistress slot.

Preferences are for WFs but all will be considered.

This position would be the #1 NYC Mistress for this particular client and would require both the potential employee and the client to engage in multiple acts of pleasurable behavior on a regular basis. Our client does have Mistresses/FBs in other cities around the country so this would be a regional position - with room for advancement (given the right candidate).

Responsibilities:

The primary responsibility of the NYC Mistress will be to engage in crazy sex with our client. However this is a two way street.

Our client has an M.Cu (Master of Cunnilingus) qualification with a massive amount of field work (embarked upon both domestically and internationally) to back up his academic qualifications. He has also a specialization in "doggy stylus" and has done some extensive research on that urban phenomenon know as the "money shot".

Finally, our client places an emphasis on fitness because he will expect the FB to accompany him to some dinners, shows, cocktail bars and museums as part of the deal. Rest assured, our client hits the gym religiously.

Requirements:

5 years + experience is a must.
Experience with melanin preferred but not required.
A Masters in BJ administration and sexual logistics is a requirement for this position.
Candidates with a preference for the "doggy stylus"school of thought are well received.
Ds/DDs on an appropriate frame are a plus.

Finally, this is not an analyst or associate position. Candidates will need to be proactive, flexible, horny, enthusiastic and verbally expressive, with the ability to work long, marathon sessions on a regular basis.

Compensation:
Extremely competitive. Base Salary will consist of multiple orgasms.
Bonus - discretionary with the opportunity for group sex, swinging adventures and any other kinkiness the NYC FB can suggest.

Benefits will include companionship, dates, vacations and travel etc.

Employment will be at will; discretion is required.

Feel free to contact 646hedonist if interested in the above position.

Hotel Sex, Public Sex....

Now as most of you, my loyal readers know, I have a lot of encounters in hotels.... I have almost encyclopedic knowledge of some the best hotels in this country and also of some the best to do you know what.... I have enjoyed excellent (room) service in Las Vegas, Miami, San Francisco, Chicago amongst a host of cities... but till lately, while I had done the IR nasty in a few NYC hotels - it hadn't been anything special.

Till lately that is. .

A few months ago I met a very nice, very hot - hot wife from the tri-state area at a bbc sex party. She was a petite blonde, tight body, MILF (in her 40s) with 36dds and a killer personality. Basically she had a porn-star body, with a cool girl mind.

Needless to say we hit it off. Her husband is a class act as well; a successful, older businessman who enjoys watching his wife indulge herself when they get the time.

Who am I to say no to helping such fine people be happy.

Especially given that I aim to please hotwives whenever and wherever I find them.

As a result - given how well we've hit it off, I have had a few assignations with said hotwife in various hotels all over the city.

And I must say, it sounds like a best hit's list:

The Penthouse at the Benjamin - check
The Hudson Hotel - check

But what I am most proud of, was last weekend - we engaged in that most New York of activities; public sex at the Standard Hotel in the Meatpacking.

So if around 11pm, you were in the meatpacking - maybe in your slinky black dress and heels or in your best hipster casual, on your way to Tenjune or Provocateur and you happened to look up and engage in the following conversation:

"Is that a bird, a plane"

"No it looks like a blonde pornstar being fucked from behind in that hotel room by that very handsome, athletic young black man"

"Wow, she looks like she's really enjoying it"

"I especially like how she's bent over on the ottoman parallel to the window"

That was us for several hours that night - we did it a few times right next to the window and while I'd love to say I was looking to see people's reactions - I actually did stay very focused on the "task at hand" if you will.

For those who saw: Thanks for watching; this was one I really wanted to cross off my bucket list!

Smoothing my sexual consumption curve... or how I learned to love the Weekend Sex Party...

For most of my NYC life, I have been focused on Career/Education, Sex with no strings attached, Staying fit/enjoying the social and cultural benefits of the city [in that order].... It has been a great ride but there has always been one riddle I tried to solve; one problem I struggled to crack - even as I went from an NYC newbie to someone who calls this crazy town home....

As a younger NYC bachelor, my biggest headache - especially as what some might term a commitmentphobe - was dealing with flings, getting sex on a regular basis and dealing with that point in plain vanilla dating when the woman you've been seeing finally realizes that yes - you are one of those guys who is looking for something "fun" and non-serious and that no; the sex or the promise of regular sex wouldn't change your mind.

What this would inevitably result in was; in terms of my sexual consumption; a series of flings over the course of the year - usually lasting 2 - 4 months on average, from the first date, through regular sex and then through the "breakup" if you will.

Sometimes the women - all great girls all of them, realized that I wouldn't want anything more and initiated the disengagement, other times, I had to pull the trigger myself. Away from the flings, the year would be punctuated by 2 - 3 swinging adventures (with couples and singles) and one or two one night stands.

Some years - this combo was enough for a decent amount of sex, in others it was woefully lacking. In addition, given my complete and utter aversion to the pathetic big city male habit of acquiring a girlfriend mainly for the sex - this meant that in some years I dealt with some truly epic droughts (one in my first year in the city was as long as 6, may be 8 months). That was a tough year on a variety of fronts.

I know - especially in my occupation, that a lack of stress relief leaves the 646hedonist stressed and angry on almost regular basis. Combining this with my frustration at the fact that Straight Men are the only ones for whom such droughts are acceptable... Women/Gay and Bi people don't work for sex in the same ways that Straight men are and of course you can see why I have decided to never let my life be decided by plain vanilla considerations.

However, in the past year and a half I have taken advantage of; away from dating and swinging one on ones, one of the greatest swinger traditions of all: the weekend party.

Swingers love to party - in groups, one on ones, same room swap, soft play etc. What the party does is that it takes the onus away from the individual partier and puts it in the hand of a gracious host; who provides a venue, makes introductions and basically allows for the X rated equivalent of a mixer... where sex is on hand and everyone can leave satisfied. There are all kinds of parties - gangbang parties, fetish parties, IR parties.... all girl parties...

Usually held on a weekend night, and advertised on a variety of swinger sites and groups... they are the perfect antidote to a tough week - and a way for people like myself to connect with old friends, meet new people and engage in some good old, consensual, Sport fucking.

I have fucked 10 women at a party in a single night, had threesomes at parties and have enjoyed myself at dedicated party houses, have watched women get double penetrated by men they met 5 minutes earlier while their husbands watched, taken XXX rated photos, cavorted in hotel suites and have played in on premise clubs.

But even more compelling than the craziness I just described in the paragraph above is the promise of variety - which is what keeps party goers coming back... more than any bar, the well run, well regarded sex party is smorgasbord of safe, consensual, no holds barred fun... a way for like minded people to explore in a discreet, safe and orgasmic place.. allowing them to leave their lives behind and then to emerge from the weekend, refreshed, glowing and ready to tackle the week and their lives.

And of course, when plain vanilla friends and coworkers ask:

"How was your weekend ?"

The smiling reply comes back: "it was good, I went to a party and caught up with some friends, it was a lot of fun".

In Defense of Tiger Woods.

So Tiger apologized last Friday. He looked contrite, apologetic and he knew that he had done wrong to his wife, and yes, he knew that he had definitely jeopardized his relationships with his sponsors (who had made him one of the richest men alive) and he had to make amends to them too.

So he did, with the same clarity, self discipline and focus that he has shown throughout his athletic career.

But to the rest of us; he doesn't owe us a damn thing. Professional Athletes aren't role models... they are entertainers and anyone who thinks otherwise must also believe that both the tooth fairy and Santa Claus visit on a regular basis.

I will not lie; as a former black nerd, I admire tiger, despite this brouhaha about his extramarital sex exploits I still do. I admire his mental and physical discipline, his ability to shape his body into something more and his ability to transform that mental discipline into success in his chosen profession.

And as a black man who dates/mates interracially I appreciated his game - his ability to bag the hot swedish former model. He did it fucking right. No baby mama bullshit. No settling here for some discounted version of what his ability and net worth should get him, no domestic violence. Hell, even the mistresses were a hodge podge of great looking talent. There are many guys who would give their right arms to "date" any of the women tiger enjoyed on a regular, non-committal basis. And of course this pissed off some "sisters": who of course always speak for the community: including the many black men that they have alienated over the years.)

(http://tinyurl.com/tiger-hedonist)

So where does Tiger go from here ?

It looks like; for now anyway, that Tiger wants to keep his family together. That is his focus. He will be back to golf but let's be clear - the family man image is gone. He can recover, much like Kobe did from the rape accusations but there will be the mountains of press and tabloid reports in his past.

I personally think that's a good thing. He always had more of an edge than he let on. And now the world knows.... he can go out there and dominate, may be swear a little more freely and have a bit more of an edge to him. We all know he likes to dominate on the course and in the bedroom - if you don't like that - fine, but what the fuck have you - all of you who judge him - achieved in your pitiful, peon-like little lives.

Tiger is a self made alpha male and a winner. He'll be back to his winning ways in short order, in the meantime he has been more successful, with women, his chosen profession and life than any of the so called moralists who are appalled by his behavior. I don't know about anyone else... but in my view - winning is what counts. Everything else is just talk... and cheap talk at that.

Another Holiday Weekend, Another gangbang

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