Help Wanted....

Description:

Our client, an experienced, swinging, athletic, endowed and well educated SBM is looking for someone to fill his NYC Mistress slot.

Preferences are for WFs but all will be considered.

This position would be the #1 NYC Mistress for this particular client and would require both the potential employee and the client to engage in multiple acts of pleasurable behavior on a regular basis. Our client does have Mistresses/FBs in other cities around the country so this would be a regional position - with room for advancement (given the right candidate).

Responsibilities:

The primary responsibility of the NYC Mistress will be to engage in crazy sex with our client. However this is a two way street.

Our client has an M.Cu (Master of Cunnilingus) qualification with a massive amount of field work (embarked upon both domestically and internationally) to back up his academic qualifications. He has also a specialization in "doggy stylus" and has done some extensive research on that urban phenomenon know as the "money shot".

Finally, our client places an emphasis on fitness because he will expect the FB to accompany him to some dinners, shows, cocktail bars and museums as part of the deal. Rest assured, our client hits the gym religiously.

Requirements:

5 years + experience is a must.
Experience with melanin preferred but not required.
A Masters in BJ administration and sexual logistics is a requirement for this position.
Candidates with a preference for the "doggy stylus"school of thought are well received.
Ds/DDs on an appropriate frame are a plus.

Finally, this is not an analyst or associate position. Candidates will need to be proactive, flexible, horny, enthusiastic and verbally expressive, with the ability to work long, marathon sessions on a regular basis.

Compensation:
Extremely competitive. Base Salary will consist of multiple orgasms.
Bonus - discretionary with the opportunity for group sex, swinging adventures and any other kinkiness the NYC FB can suggest.

Benefits will include companionship, dates, vacations and travel etc.

Employment will be at will; discretion is required.

Feel free to contact 646hedonist if interested in the above position.

Hotel Sex, Public Sex....

Now as most of you, my loyal readers know, I have a lot of encounters in hotels.... I have almost encyclopedic knowledge of some the best hotels in this country and also of some the best to do you know what.... I have enjoyed excellent (room) service in Las Vegas, Miami, San Francisco, Chicago amongst a host of cities... but till lately, while I had done the IR nasty in a few NYC hotels - it hadn't been anything special.

Till lately that is. .

A few months ago I met a very nice, very hot - hot wife from the tri-state area at a bbc sex party. She was a petite blonde, tight body, MILF (in her 40s) with 36dds and a killer personality. Basically she had a porn-star body, with a cool girl mind.

Needless to say we hit it off. Her husband is a class act as well; a successful, older businessman who enjoys watching his wife indulge herself when they get the time.

Who am I to say no to helping such fine people be happy.

Especially given that I aim to please hotwives whenever and wherever I find them.

As a result - given how well we've hit it off, I have had a few assignations with said hotwife in various hotels all over the city.

And I must say, it sounds like a best hit's list:

The Penthouse at the Benjamin - check
The Hudson Hotel - check

But what I am most proud of, was last weekend - we engaged in that most New York of activities; public sex at the Standard Hotel in the Meatpacking.

So if around 11pm, you were in the meatpacking - maybe in your slinky black dress and heels or in your best hipster casual, on your way to Tenjune or Provocateur and you happened to look up and engage in the following conversation:

"Is that a bird, a plane"

"No it looks like a blonde pornstar being fucked from behind in that hotel room by that very handsome, athletic young black man"

"Wow, she looks like she's really enjoying it"

"I especially like how she's bent over on the ottoman parallel to the window"

That was us for several hours that night - we did it a few times right next to the window and while I'd love to say I was looking to see people's reactions - I actually did stay very focused on the "task at hand" if you will.

For those who saw: Thanks for watching; this was one I really wanted to cross off my bucket list!

Meet and Greet/Meet and Fuck...

So I had a meet and greet (with a hotwife couple off of AFF) earlier this week. Unfortunately it did not work out like I had planned but I ended up thinking about my experiences with meet and greets... and with meet and fucks...

First, let me explain my terminology:

A meet and greet - in my experience is as the name implies, a chance for a couple to check out another couple or single person, much like a first date, it is a way to see if there are any compatibility issues and can sometimes be over a period as short as 15 minutes to as long as several "dates".

A meet and fuck - which is where I have had the majority of my experience is when a couple or a single lady meet with the intention of sex at the meet. The difference is really one of style because for a meet and fuck, phone calls, text messaging and email takes the place of the date as a way to ascertain (and build) chemistry.

The couple in question for my meet and greet was definitely in the latter school. They did not consider themselves swingers and they liked to "let things evolve".

God bless them. However, my personality - as type A as it is, does not bond well with such couples... and I think that it probably shows. The couples and swingers - like Ms. Alex that I have had great relationships and phenomenal encounters with know exactly what we're there for.

For me Swinging and NSA encounters really are all about the great sex... not the pursuit, not the build up but the sweaty, raunchy action itself.

Fortunately the world is a large place and there are plenty of guys willing to hang around the hoop and play out the "seduction" scenario... and if that is your fantasy, I am definitely not knocking it. However, I have the most success coming in as the stud - I am there to sexually satisfy, add a level of spice and physicality that you might not get, I am present for the great sex... and while I enjoy the chit-chat and get to know you stuff... unless you are one of my old swinging friends... it is all about what we do - on the bed, on the floor, in the shower... etc.

Needless to say, my style and theirs did not gel and after a perfectly polite drink, I excused myself and headed out.

Rejection always stings, whatever the reason but we learn to know ourselves better; because it is a reminder that one cannot be all things to all people - no matter how hard you try.