Friday Night Fuck....with a twist of domination

It has been a hectic few weeks - with work, projects and various career initiatives pulling me in a variety of directions. Unfortunately, with ms y being a little clingy and work pushing me around, I haven't had any time for anything but work and career issues....

Thankfully I was able to change that tonight. I hooked up with a Greek lady off of AFF. I won't lie, she wasn't the hottest chica I've done in my extra-curricular career.... but she did let me tap into a side of me that I don't usually exhibit.

You see, said hook up has had a lot of non-consensual/submissive fantasies.... And while I can be dominant, it is not my general style of play....However, given her interests, I was intrigued.

And as such, I put together a domination situation/roleplay sequence just for her. I made her meet me in public without any underwear on... and she had to do what I demanded for a half hour. I also made her bring along her favorite sex toy....

I guess I surprised myself with how dominant I became - throat gagging, face fucking, cock slapping; my new friend was game for (almost) everything. I made her suck my dick while fucking herself with the vibrator, gagged her numerous times till she lost her gag reflex, slapped her across the face - with my cock and with my hands (lightly, no bruises here) and called her a bitch, a slut, a whore; I also fucked her with supreme abandon, pinning her down, pulling her hair, .... I choked her - which I do not usually do, but I think the fact that she was so game was a massive turn on for me.

And she loved it.

We fucked numerous times over 4 hrs, I came multiples - including via one very memorable titty fuck and blow job combo I will not soon forget.

While the raunch factor in this particular encounter was off the charts, (I watched her get dressed, then I hiked up her skirt and bent her over my bed for one last round of doggy goodness), I am not sure that I need to get to that level of dominance. I really enjoyed it, but I also enjoy sex when the girl I am with is enthusiastic in general.

I guess the honest to God answer for me is that I will always need a certain level of dominance in my physical encounters, especially if they are just casual; I do know, having been there before in a relationship, that the desire to dominate - all the time - even sexually, fades if there is a real emotional connection; but I think I will always need a sexual partner who understands that part of the physicality that I enjoy is the ying and yang between men and women... and how our bodies fit and interact.

With all that said, I am soooo glad Ms. Alex is throwing an orgy party next Friday... I need some more raunch in my life... and I know a few hot-wives who might be ready to oblige.

PS: It turned out tonight's hook up was new to IR/BBC.... I think it's safe to say that I put in a good performance for all the "brothers" out there. I think she might go black a bit more often in future.....

Another Holiday Weekend, Another gangbang

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Hilarious Satire....

is it wrong that I would be focused more on banging the hell out of her, as opposed to focusing on the offensive things she was saying...


Use Of 'N-Word' May End Porn Star's Career

Not really happy with what I am eating

So, I am in the middle of a slight let-down, which was inevitable given my summer. I am slap bang in the middle of a career transition so the days are long and my nights are filled with networking events.

I can't complain... it is what I wanted to do, but my sex life is taking a hit. I have had some sexual encounters, but nothing with the right level of raunch, passion and skill I am looking for.

To top it off; my friend ms Y is becoming a little clingy... while denying me oral sex.

So I need a new adventure and soon.... any body out there looking for an athletic bbc to take a ride on..... I eat pussy too....

I might just wear a sign... saying Have Cock - will travel.

On not knowing where my next meal will come from.

So it has been a few days since the threesome. I am off my high and looking for my next encounter so to speak.... I have nothing going on in the plain vanilla world, a fact that my real life friends are starting to call me out on. I'd much rather get drunk at the bar/club than spit game. Not because I don't know how - but that I am less interested with the thrill of the hunt. I am all about bagging the game and enjoying a good meal so to speak.... The hunt is for game players, I am past that.

With all that said, I need my fix soon. I know of a sex party on Saturday - one that has treated me well in the past despite some minor annoyances. If nothing comes up (and I see nothing on the horizon right now, I might find myself, over the weekend, in the tri-state area getting my fix with at least one hot wife).

I know I should try to get back into the dating game, but really none of the women I see/meet really move me. And I am both lazy, disinclined and not convinced of any of the game's merits.

But still I need sex on a regular basis...

What a conundrum.

Leaving Las Vegas….

I am sitting here at McCarran International after what has been a great west coast trip: I visited Northern California, Southern California and Las Vegas. I got to see wine country, mountain country and some great cities while I was at it. And I got to reconnect with old friends, make some new ones and get some hot sex in between.

So why am I feeling less content and more dissatisfied. I really should be grateful and I know this. I just took the trip of a lifetime, I can afford to pay for it all and I am heading back to a great new career transition upon my return to NYC.

I guess the simple answer is that I am never satisfied. I always want to push myself harder, I always want to win and to be perfectly honest; I want to be King.

Being King means having a suitable queen… and there might lie the rub. Whenever I take my vacations I see guys who are nowhere near my income bracket or career status, needless to mention looks with dimes and trophy girlfriends. And while I have done well in my time, I really do not believe I have fully explored my fullest potential with the opposite sex.

Put simply; at this point in my life, I want a hot chick. Not sorta hot, not cute, not even moderately hot. I want a traffic stopper on my arm and on her back in my bed. I want the kind of chick who spends as much time as I do in the gym; keeping it tight and together.

Being a Black man who dates interracially; and who has dated mostly white women for the past few years… there are certain challenges… but I am not crying any tears for myself. My problem might be that I have become so focused on sex and sexual experiences, that I almost don’t know how to engage in a vanilla way anymore.

In addition, as I have become more successful, my patience with women and the games they play has grown less and less. Add that to my tendency to speak my mind, my large sexual appetite and you have a very high dating bar set for the 646Hedonist.

I have been single for about 5 years now. 5 years of crazy adventures and misadventures, a lot of fun, a little heartbreak and a lot of self knowledge. I don’t think that odyssey is about to end but it might be fun; even just for a little while, to share that with someone attractive, sexual, smart and respectful.

One of my good friends, a man I call the “natural” because of his uncanny ability to put women at ease - first in public, then in his bed ~ has advised me to get a “starter” girlfriend; to ease my transition out of the life of the hungry, sexually ravenous bachelor into a more acceptable dating mode.

I am not sure about that idea; but suggestions from you readers are greatly welcomed. Regardless of how things play out… I have been having the sexual time of my life and I would not give that back for anything in the world.

Trip Update: Sin City Edition

Hello dear readers. I am coming to you from the madness that is sin city. It is 9AM as I blog the events of my extended West Coast Vacation but it might as well be 6pm or 4am. Time really has no meaning on the Vegas Strip.

My trip so far has been a blast, I hit two of the three major cities in California, a beautiful California beach/mountain town and have been in Sin City for the past two nights. I have had some great dinners, partied with old friends and explored new places. I have also taken a LOT of photos.

I have also had the opportunity to indulge myself in my other hobby: sex.

Suprisingly enough, my first encounter in NorCal came about via a CL posting. Granted, it was in Mr. Newmark’s home city so one would hope that it worked out, but as I have mentioned before, CL has become spambot/Pic Collector/Flake Central. Hence I was very surprised to have been contacted by a nice hot wife couple who lived in one of the surrounding suburbs.

I had a great hotel while I was there (thanks Amex travel!) and as such was able to host in style. The day was a little touch and go however, with my new friend calling earlier in the day to cancel, then texting later at night to say she was feeling much better and wanted to go through with the meet.

Despite the complications, it was a hot play date. Her delightful breasts, oral skills and great attitude made for a very hot time.

However I must say, that the events of the past 24 hours do take the cake.

I had the good fortune to visit the red rooster while here in vegas: (www.vegasredrooster.com) with some friends who I have played with on the east coast but who happened to be based out of LV.

It was a surreal yet positive experience and definitely worth a visit. There is a large group area and several private play rooms, with a variety of couples and singles allowed in. The rooster itself is a bit of an homage to the golden age of swinging.... (With all the positive and negative connotations that might imply).

However I did not have the time to ponder those thoughts because I was engaged, first in sex with my swinging friend from back east, and then with her and her girlfriend in my first MFF threesome. I don't think I will ever forget the sight of fucking one woman while watching her face buried deep in another woman's pussy. It was pretty fucking hot and despite my best efforts, 10 - 15 minutes of that action was what it took. This was after a pretty long one on one session with my friend before the 3 some.

I just found out that the friend I was supposed to play with on Sunday evening just cancelled on me.... seeing as this was a CL hookup, i might have been talking to a spambot for all I know.

Oh well, the trip has been a blast so far. We'll see what we can do about these next two days.

Have fun and stay safe everyone.